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KVOA Interview with John Abraham (View here


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Let's talk about Death with John Abraham
Founder, Choice and Dignity

In this episode, John talks about his work with Choice and Dignity, a right to die nonprofit organization offering end-of-life advocacy to enable everyone to have a “good death.”

John Abraham, Episcopal Priest, and Certified Fellow in Thanatology has 40+ years working in death education as a counselor, therapist, patient-care advocate, and health care administrator. He is the author of How To Get the Death You Want: A Practical And Moral Guide (2017) and of many articles in OMEGA – Journal of Death and Dying and numerous journals, newsletters, magazines, and newspapers, reflecting his commitment to the disciplines of death, dying, and bereavement. Mr. Abraham approaches these topics with a holistic perspective, taking into account the physical, psychological, and spiritual dimensions of these challenging issues. He speaks and presents to doctors, nurses, general medical staff, assisted-living workers, educators, hospices, community and religious groups, emergency caregivers, etc.

John is the founder and president of Choice and Dignity, Inc. Their website provides support and information about life’s end and how to avoid the “bad death” that many people experience, enabling everyone to obtain a “good death.” He is a graduate of The Peddie School, Colgate University, and Virginia Theological Seminary, and is committed to continuing education through various venues. He has taught Death Education to undergraduates and presently teaches adults through the University of Arizona’s Adult Education Program.


"How to Get the Death You Want - A Practical and Moral Guide" by John Abraham, M.Div., F.T., Thanatologist. 

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"Final Exit 2020" by Derek Humphry, founder of the Hemlock Society. Only available digitally. 

"The Peaceful Pill Handbook" Available here 

Useful websites

Final Exit Network

ERGO (Euthanasia Research & Guidance Organization) 

Death with Dignity Meet Up Group

Exit International 

The Hemlock Society of San Diego

World Federation of Right to Die Societies

(John Abraham is a lifetime member of ADEC)

The Funeral Consumers Alliance of Arizona is a nonprofit, trusted, objective source of information to help you navigate end of life arrangements. 

IRISVISION helps the visually impaired community see clearly and live fully

The Trouble with Physical Aid in Dying (PAD)

The 8 States that have PAD or Medical Aid in Dying (MAID) all have legislation based on the same grossly inadequate model!

First, one must be terminally ill. Usually, by the time two doctors proclaim terminal illness, the patient practically has one foot in the grave! By including the terminal criteria such PAD or MAID laws exclude many who may wish to hasten their deaths due to hopeless and interminable suffering experienced far in advance of being arbitrarily deemed "terminal," such as those with early stage Alzheimer's Disease, progressive disorders such as ALS or MS, and much more.  Those with dementia may have to wait until it is too late, being diagnosed as incompetent to give informed consent for PAD.  Moreover, is the term "terminal" always justly applied? I have a friend whose mother in a nursing home was in enormous suffering and withered away to weighing only fifty-eight pounds, and yet the doctors refused to declare that she was "terminal." It would be best if we were to terminate "terminal" from such legislation!

And it is difficult to find physicians who will comply, even though it is legal. Whole hospital chains have opted out, and many doctors just will not participate. One couple in New Jersey called over 40 doctors, none of whom would assist them!

Choice and Dignity DOES support those who are not necessarily terminally ill!  John Abraham